THE 10 COMMANDMENTS - A DETAILED CATHOLIC EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE
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A good Catholic examination of conscience can be a great help in making a new start in the life of faith. We use an examination of conscience to help call to mind our sins and failings during a period of quiet reflection before approaching the priest in Confession.
To make an examination:
1 - Set aside some quiet time for reflection.
2 - Start by praying to the Holy Spirit, asking for help in making a good examination to prepare for Confession.
3 Read through the items on this list and honestly reflect on your behavior for each item.
4 - If necessary, take this list or some brief notes (keep them private!) to Confession to help you remember things.
A Catholic examination of conscience traditionally follows the outline of the Ten Commandments
(I) - “I AM THE LORD, YOUR GOD. YOU SHALL HAVE NO OTHER GOD BESIDES ME.”
1 - Have I doubted or denied God’s existence?
2 - Have I been ungrateful to God for His benefits?
3 - Am I open to God’s will?
4 - Do I rely solely on myself and not on God?
5 - Have I abandoned the Catholic Faith? Formally left the Catholic Church?
6 - Have I joined a non-Catholic church or anti-Catholic group or practiced another religion or joined a group forbidden to Catholics (Masons, communists, etc.)?
7 - Have I refused to believe any truths of the Faith or any teachings of the Church?
8 - Did I fail to profess or defend the Faith?
9 - Have I failed to go to confession at least once a year?
10 - Have I been faithful to my daily prayers?
11 - Have I practiced any superstitions? Engaged in superstitious practices?(Including horoscopes,fortune tellers, etc.). Been involved in the occult? (Seances, ouija board, worship of Satan, etc.)
12 - Am I unwilling to turn away from everything that is opposed to God’s work in my soul.
13 - Disobeyed the commandments of God or the Church?
14 - Refused to accept what God has revealed as true ?
15 - Nourished and protected my faith?
16 - Rejected everything opposed to a sound faith?
17 - Deliberately misled others about doctrine or the faith?
18 - Despaired about my salvation or the forgiveness of my sins?
19 - Presumed on God's mercy? (Committing a sin in expectation of forgiveness, or asking for forgiveness without conversion and practicing virtue.)
20 - Loved someone or something more than God (money, power, sex, ambition,etc.)?
21 - Let someone or something influence my choices more than God?
22 - Hidden a serious sin or told a lie in confession?
(II) - “YOU SHALL NOT TAKE THE NAME OF THE LORD, YOUR GOD, IN VAIN.”
1 - Have I taken the Lord’s name in vain, for example, carelessly, in anger, or surprise?
2 - Do I speak irreverently of holy persons, places or things?
3 - Have I cursed myself or others?
4 - Did I use profanity, vulgar, suggestive or obscene speech ?
5 - Have I called down evil upon anyone or anything?
6 - Did I get angry with God and blamed God for my failings?
7 - Have I angered others so as to make them curse?
8 - Have I broken or failed to keep a vow made to God?
9 - Have I murmured or complained about God?
10 - Used the name of God in cursing or blasphemy?
11 - Spoken about the Faith, the Church, the saints, or sacred things with irreverence,hatred or defiance?
12 - Watched television or movies, or listened to music that treated God, the Church,the saints, or sacred things irreverently?
13 - Belittled others in my speech?
14 - Behaved disrespectfully in Church?
15 - Misused places or things set apart for the worship of God?
16 - Committed perjury? (Breaking an oath or lying under oath.)
(III) - “REMEMBER THE SABBATH DAY, TO KEEP IT HOLY.”
1 - Set time aside each day for personal prayer to God?
2 - Missed Mass on Sunday or Holy Days of Obligation (through own fault without sufficient reason)?
3 - Committed a sacrilege against the Blessed Sacrament?
4 - Received a sacrament while in the state of mortal sin?
5 - Habitually come late to and/or leave early from Mass without a good reason?
6 - Shop, labor, or do business unnecessarily on Sunday or other Holy Days of Obligation?
7 - Not attend to taking my children to Mass?
8 - Knowingly eat meat on a forbidden day (or not fasting on a fast day)?
9 - Eat or drink within one hour of receiving Communion (other than medical need)?
10 - Have I been irreverent while receiving the Most Blessed Sacrament?
11 - Have I been willfully distracted during Mass?
12 - Do I distract others during Mass?
(IV) - “HONOR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER.”
1 - (If still under my parents' care) Obeyed all that my parents reasonably asked of me?
2 - Neglected the needs of my parents in their old age or in their time of need?
3 - (If still in school) Obeyed the reasonable demands of my teachers?
4 - Neglected to give my children proper food, clothing, shelter, education, discipline and care (even after Confirmation)?
5 - Provided for the religious education and formation of my children for as long as they are under my care?
6 - Ensured that my children still under my care regularly frequent the sacraments of Penance and Holy Communion?
7 - Educated my children in a way that corresponds to my religious convictions?
8 - Provided my children with a positive, prudent and personalized education in the Catholic teaching on human sexuality?
9 - Been to my children a good example of how to live the Catholic Faith?
10 - Prayed with and for my children?
11 - Lived in humble obedience to those who legitimately exercise authority over me?
12 - Have I broken the law in regards towards the elderly ?
13 - Have I supported or voted for a politician whose positions are opposed to the teachings of Christ and the Catholic Church?
14 - Have I disobeyed, insulted, or shown disrespect to my parents or legitimate superiors?
15 - Did I neglect my duties to my husband, wife, children or parents?
16 - Did I neglect to give a good religious example to my family?
17 - Am I disrespectful, impolite, or discourteous toward my family?
18 - Have I failed to meet my children’s physical, spiritual, emotional, and educational needs?
19 - Have I disobeyed the lawful demands of my superiors, teachers, or employer?
20 - Did I fail to actively take an interest in the religious education and formation of my children?
21 - Did I cause tension and fights in my family?
22 - Did I care for my aged and infirm relatives?
(V) - “YOU SHALL NOT MURDER"
1 - Unjustly and intentionally killed a human being?
2 - Been involved in an abortion, directly or indirectly ( through advice, etc.)?
3 - Have I entertained thoughts of suicide, desired to commit suicide, or attempted suicide?
4 - Supported, promoted or encouraged the practice of assisted suicide or mercy killing?
5 - Deliberately desired to kill an innocent human being?
6 - Unjustly inflicted bodily harm an another person?
7 - Unjustly threatened another person with bodily harm?
8 - Verbally or emotionally abused another person?
9 - Hated another person, or wished him evil?
10 - Been prejudiced, or unjustly discriminated against others because of their race, color, nationality, sex or religion?
11 - Joined a hate group?
12 - Purposely provoked another by teasing or nagging? Have I spread gloom through my words and actions?
13 - Recklessly endangered my life or health, or that of another, by my actions?
14 - Driven recklessly or under the influence of alcohol or other drugs?
15 - Abused alcohol tobacco or other drugs?
16 - Sold or given drugs to others to use for non-therapeutic purposes?
17 - Over-eaten?
18 - Encouraged others to sin by giving scandal? Have I led others into sin
19 - Helped another to commit a mortal sin (through advice, them somewhere, etc.?)
20 - Caused serious injury or death by criminal neglect?
21 - Indulged in serious anger?
22 - Refused to control my temper?
23 - Been mean to, quarreled with, or willfully hurt someone? Have I used harsh or abusive language toward others?
24 - Been unforgiving to others, when mercy or pardon was requested? Is there anyone with whom I refuse to speak, or against whom I bear a grudge?
25 - Sought revenge or hoped something bad would happen to someone? Do I deliberately harbor unkind and revengeful thoughts about others? Have I taken revenge?
26 - Delighted to see someone else get hurt or suffer? Have I taken pleasure in anyone’s misfortunes?
27 - Treated animals cruelly, causing them to suffer or die needlessly?
28 - Used artificial contraception or birth control?
29 - Have I failed to help someone in danger or in need?
30 - Have I wished evil on anyone?
(VI) - “YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY”
1 - Practiced the virtue of chastity?
2 - Given in to lust? (The desire for sexual pleasure unrelated to spousal love in marriage.)
3 - Used an artificial means of birth control?
4 - Refused to be open to conception, without just cause? (Catechism, 2368)
5 - Participated in immoral techniques for in vitro fertilization or artificial insemination?
6 - Sterilized my sex organs for contraceptive purposes?
7 - Deprived my spouse of the marital right, without just cause?
8 - Claimed my own marital right without concern for my spouse?
9 - Deliberately caused male climax outside of normal sexual intercourse? (Catechism, 2366)
10 - Willfully entertained impure thoughts?
11 - Purchased, viewed, or made use of pornography?
12 - Watched movies and television that involve sex and nudity?
13 - Listened to music or jokes that are harmful to purity?
14 - Committed adultery? (Sexual relations with someone who is married, or with someone other than my spouse.)
15 - Committed incest? (Sexual relations with a relative or in-law.)
16 - Committed fornication? (Sexual relations with someone of the opposite sex when neither of us is married.)
17 - Engaged in homosexual activity? (Sexual activity with someone of the same sex.)
18 - Committed rape?
19 - Masturbated? (Deliberate stimulation of one's own sexual organs for sexual pleasure.)
19 - Engaged in sexual foreplay (petting) reserved for marriage?
20 - Preyed upon children or youth for my sexual pleasure?
21 - Engaged in unnatural sexual activities?
22 - Engaged in prostitution, or paid for the services of a Prostitute?
23 - Seduced someone, or allowed myself to be seduced?
24 - Made uninvited and unwelcome sexual advances toward another?
25 - Purposely dressed immodestly?
(VII) - “YOU SHALL NOT STEAL.”
1- Stolen? (Take something that doesn't belong to me against the reasonable will of the owner.) Have I accepted or bought stolen property?
2 - Envied others on account of their possessions?
3 - Tried to live in a spirit of Gospel poverty and simplicity?
4 - Given generously to others in need?
5 - Considered that God has provided me with money so that I might use it to benefit others, as well as for my own legitimate needs?
6 - Freed myself from a consumer mentality?
7 - Practiced the works of mercy? Have I refused or neglected to help anyone in urgent need?
8 - Deliberately defaced, destroyed or lost another's property?
9 - Cheated on a test, taxes, sports, games, or in business? Am I dishonest in my business dealings?
10 - Squandered money in compulsive gambling?
11 - Make a false claim to an insurance company?
12 - Paid my employees a living wage, or failed to give a full day's work for a full day's pay? Have I cheated my employees of their wages?
13 - Failed to honor my part of a contract? Have I cheated my employer of an honest day’s work?
14 - Failed to make good on a debt?
15 - Overcharge someone, especially to take advantage of another's hardship or ignorance?
16 - Misused natural resources.
17 - Have I failed to make restitution for what I stole.
18 - Have I helped someone steal?
19 - Have I borrowed without permission? Have I failed to return things borrowed?
(VIII) “YOU SHALL NOT BEAR FALSE WITNESS AGAINST YOUR NEIGBOR.”
1 - Have I lied deliberately?
2 - Have I deliberately misled or deceived anyone?
3 - Perjured myself under oath?
4 - Did I gossip or reveal others’ faults or sins?
5 - Committed detraction? (Destroying a person's reputation by telling others about his faults for no good reason.)
6 - Committed slander or calumny? (Telling lies about another person in order to destroy his reputation.)
7 - Committed libel? (Writing lies about another person in order to destroy his reputation.)
8 - Been guilty of rash judgment? (Assuming the worst of another person based on circumstantial evidence.)
9 - Failed to make reparation for a lie I told, or for harm done to a person's reputation?
10 - Failed to speak out in defense of the Catholic Faith, the Church, or of another person? Have I failed to prevent the defamation of another’s character?
11 - Betrayed another's confidence through speech?
12 - Have I failed to keep promises or oaths?
13 - Have I signed false documents?
14 - Have I failed to keep promises or oaths?
15 - Have I revealed secrets and betrayed trust?
16 - Have a failed to forgive someone or held a grudge?
17 - Did I fail to keep secret what should be confidential?
18 - Have I disclosed another’s sins without serious reason?
(IX) “YOU SHALL NOT COVET YOUR NEIGHBOR'S WIFE”
1 - Did I commit impure acts with another – fornication (premarital sex) or adultery (sex with a married person)?
2 - Did I commit impure acts by myself (masturbation)?
3 - Do I engage in homosexual acts?
4 - Have I refused my spouse the marriage right without good reason?
5 - Am I dating someone who is civilly divorced but still bound by a valid marriage?
6 - Did I marry or advise anyone to marry outside the Catholic Church?
7 - Have I willfully entertained impure thoughts or desires?
8 - Did I respect all members of the opposite sex, or have I objectified them?
9 - Have I read, listened to, viewed, or spoken of impure things?
10 - Have I worn revealing or immodest clothing?
11 - Have I succumbed occasions of impurity?
(X) “YOU SHALL NOT COVET YOUR NEIGHBOR'S GOODS”
1 - Am I greedy or selfish?
2 - Am I envious of someone’s possessions, talents, or blessings?
3 - Do I indulge in self-pity?
4 - Am I proud, vain, or desire to be praised?
5 - Have I exaggerated my success?
6 - Have I minimized or made excuses for my failures?
7 - Have I measured my charity by what others have given, rather than my ability to give?
